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March 2008 – Does wearing female clothing make him bi?

Full Letter: My husband had confessed a desire to wear woman’s clothing. He insists he isn’t bi (let alone gay), but I simply don’t know. Have you ever heard of men who are straight but wearing woman’s clothing turns them on? I would like to point out it doesn’t worry me he might be bi I just want to know so that I can be supportive.

Jack and Jill’s Answer: Transvestism (cross-dressing) in all its various forms does not necessarily go hand and hand with bisexuality let alone homosexuality. There are many men who would never dream of being with another man but who are aroused by wearing women’s clothing. This doesn’t mean he isn’t bi, only he can say whether he is or not. The only thing you can do is assure him you are ok exploring whatever turns him on.
 

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Jack Irona and Jill Lupin reside in the Greenwich Village area of New York City.

Jack is 46 years old. He has been involved in the swinging lifestyle, both a promoter and participant since his early twenties. His background in club and entertainment marketing, as well as his experience in swinging lends to his insights into the lifestyle.

Jill is 34 years old, prior to meeting Jack, had never participated in the lifestyle. With Jack she has been swinging for about two years and has been to events throughout the US and Canada. As a couple, they bring a unique mix of veteran and novice outlooks to the Swinging Lifestyle, from both the male and female perspective.

Both Jack and Jill review all questions. When they are of differing opinion, both are stated. Please note that there are no finite set of rules to swinging and the answers here are the opinions of Jack and Jill, however they do reflect the overall ideals of Adult Socials.

In addition to this column Jack and Jill, write freelance articles about The Swinging Lifestyle. They are also working on a nonfiction novel written from a couple’s point of view. The novel will draw on their experiences as well as hundreds of other couples involved in swinging throughout North America.

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